Men: yep I am finally getting it, I get the fear of commitment, I get the not wanting to settle down, I am starting to understand.....understand that it is all a bunch of bull crap! you aren't afraid of commitment you just enjoy being selfish, living the bachelor life, watching movies on your laptop while eating pizza in bed without commentary. That I get. So consider me now one of the guys, I have a "fear of commitment" and I don't want to "settle down". translation incase you missed it: I really enjoy eating pizza in bed alone at 10:pm while watching a movie, I am not really afraid I am just enjoying my new found peace as a newly single