this is when you know you friends really get you....instead of baking you cookies or bringing over a movie or suggesting some draining road trip, "to take your mind of the week", they leave you completely alone, except for sending things like this:

"Minus the cigarette this reminded me of you last week with the construction, your purse being stolen and the other stuff. I can totally visualize you chugging a **beer in a stunning dress and exquisite shoe"

Thanks Friend!

** it should be clarified that I say, "ugh I need a beer" quite often, but I am not in the habit of throwing back a cold one after a long day. I will throw back a box of Fancy Cakes or a really great burger.